19 August 2013

Miracle on Leslie Street: The Spit

Ever feel like you need a mental health break?

I've just written about one of my favorite escapes in Toronto.




08 August 2013

Laser PRK, Parenting, and seeing my toes in the shower for the first time in years!

The P in PRK is for Patience - and for me it is also for Parenting. 

I write about my experience with laser PRK surgery here: http://bunchfamily.ca/p-is-for-patience/

26 June 2013

Women’s contribution to science goes unheard

There shouldn't be symposium speaker line ups that look like this one from 1934, in 2013, but for many complicated reasons, there sill are.











The 9th Aircraft Engineering Research Conference, 1934. NASA

I posted for The Conversation UK on a recent article in the Journal of Evolutionary Biology. In a nutshell we showed that high quality science led by female academics is under-represented in comparison to that of their male counterparts and that this may have to do with men accepting more speaking invitations than women.

Why is this the case? We don't know, but it is important to discuss it.
http://theconversation.com/womens-contribution-to-science-goes-unheard-15532. 

Also check out the excellent comment stream on Athene Donald's blog
http://occamstypewriter.org/athenedonald/2013/06/24/all-male-invited-speakers-its-complicated/

The bigger picture is important: If this dearth of female voices in conferences harms women’s advancement within academia, then society as a whole is also losing some of its best scientists.

05 June 2013

Swift Scientists

New post on Bunch about how the kids and I discovered chimney swifts.

http://bunchfamily.ca/chimney-swift-watching-with-kids/



16 May 2013

Wild City at Bunch

I have been posting over at the parenting blog Bunch. The column is a mix of parenting memoir and ecological essay with the goal of inspiring people to get out and enjoy nature in the big city.

This link will take you to the most recent post as well as blog archives.
http://bunchfamily.ca/category/wild-city/











 


Yellow Warbler at Tommy Thompson Park.

19 April 2013

Earth Day and Spring!

This spring's update is posted on a Toronto parenting blog. My hope is to inspire others to engage in Earth Day actions.

http://bunchfamily.ca/watching-little-things-grow/

13 March 2013

New couch and other musings


While looking at the calendar it occurred to me that it has been a long time since I have posted anything. The winter has been good to us with snow to play in and ice to skate on. The big news is that, after many years, we finally decided to replace our more than 30-year-old couch. That old couch held many memories and has been in my family since I was less than 5 years old, but the padding was literally pulverized and the upholstery was so old we couldn’t sew it together anymore, so we had to let it go.  We bought a lovely chocolate colored replacement (not easily stained) and we are enjoying it.
                                         Our new couch

Life remains just on the edge of “too busy”, but I think we are getting better at noticing when we fall off the edge and are correcting the problem before too much exhaustion or grumpiness sets in.  I am proud of this progress, and it is important when one is working a mentally challenging full-time job, sharing the organizing and cooking and unending cleaning involved in raising two kids, and still doing collaborative data analysis and writing in the evenings. All of these aspects of my life are important to me, and balancing it all has become an exercise in mindfulness.

As I work, especially at night, I ask myself “How are you feeling?” “Are you resorting to unhealthy habits to keep yourself awake (e.g. snacking, coffee), or are you cruising along with enough fuel in the energy tank?” I try my best to stop when there is not enough fuel in the tank.
Another trick I use is to pause frequently and take note of all the times when I am literally happily humming along in whatever I am doing, be it editing and writing at work, running around with the kids, or analyzing or writing something at home. It helps me to remember that most of the time I am very happy in my life.

The kids continue to grow. The “little one” officially moved into a big boy bed (no more baby) and he has retained the ability to use his puppy dog eyes to get me to do whatever he wants. The “big one” asks and answers questions, thinks things through aloud, and even attempts humor. Often his attempts at a joke are more amusing than the punch line, but I love that he is trying. He is also getting very good at recognizing sarcasm. I don’t want anyone to think that I shower my kids with sarcasm, but it is one of my main methods of humor. Therefore, it makes me proud when he says “Mommy that was sarcasm, right?” and I can answer, “You got it!”

Life rolls along, we grow a litter older every day, and a little wiser too I hope.

12 January 2013

San Francisco


What impressed me most about San Francisco was the abundance of natural beauty in a city of about a million people (over 7 million in the greater San Jose-San Francisco-Oakland area). 

I was in San Francisco for a conference, and was fortunate to meet with friends a day before the conference began. Together we enjoyed a marvelous trip to beautiful natural areas in Marin County just across the Golden Gate Bridge from the city.

Golden Gate Bridge

The drive across the iconic bridge offered stunning views of the Bay (including Alcatraz), the city, and the surrounding hills. Amazingly, right by the highway, along the salt marches of Richardson Bay, were small flocks of avocets and other shorebirds.

Our first stop was Muir Woods National Monument, one of the world’s last stands of old-growth redwood forest. There we hiked through Cathedral Grove and along the Bootjack trail and Redwood creek. The trees in the valley were enormous! Their size rivals the Sitka Spruce and Douglas Fir I have seen in Vancouver and on the Olympic Peninsula. The woods were lovely and as we hiked we saw ravens, ruby-crowned kinglets, winter wrens, dark-eyed juncos and, impressively, a varied thrush (of course we saw that in the parking lot on the way out). 

Towering Redwoods

Next stop was the top of Hawk Hill in the Golden Gate National Recreation area. There we were rewarded with stunning views of the Golden Gate Bridge and the city gleaming white behind it. All around us as we walked were very tame white crowned sparrows, juncos, ruby crowned kinglets and harriers soaring overhead. From Hawk Hill we drove around Bonita Cove towards the Point Bonita lighthouse. To my delight, along the short path to the lighthouse we saw harbor seals, gray pelicans, black oystercatchers, many gulls, double-crested cormorants and even loons. The waves of the Pacific crashed against the rocks as the sun began sinking into the horizon. It was awe-inspiring.

View over the Pacific near Bonita Cove

In the evening, we headed back across the Golden Gate Bridge and to the west end of the city where we parked near Ocean Beach to view the ruins of the Sutro baths. Though the building housing the baths burned down in 1966, the foundations and a small lagoon remain. Within the lagoon we saw a river otter! Wildlife just appears at every turn in this city!

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Throughout the rest of my stay, sight-seeing was squeezed into a busy conference schedule. I walked much of the city and have posted some photos below.  

Sunset in the Golden Gate Park


Grove of trees in the Golden Gate Park, like something straight out of Tolkien’s Shire.


China Town

 
Murals on the Woman’s Building in the Mission District

22 December 2012

Year in Review 2012

It has been another whirlwind year for us, with minutes that seemed to last forever, but weeks and months that flew by! We have enjoyed many wonderful moments with our boys over the year and they continue to grow and delight us - swimming lessons, hikes, bike trips, holiday markets, solstice festivals, skating, museum visits and even gingerbread tower making! 
 

Our gingerbread CN tower


















 
This year we watched our toddler learn to run and jump – seemingly days after learning to walk – he hasn’t stopped moving since! He runs everywhere, and we run after him, marvelling at his endless energy. Yet, when it is time to cuddle, this two-year-old has a remarkable way of curling up, with his head on your shoulder, and his whole body emanating peace and warmth. 

This year our “big boy” lost his first tooth. One evening he told me his tooth was loose. I checked and indeed it moved, but only very slightly. To my utter surprise, when I picked him up from daycare the next day the tooth was gone. Upon asking him where it was, he told me that he wiggled it all day and was so surprised when it fell out that he dropped it. We searched the daycare provider’s floor to no avail. Luckily the Tooth Fairy understood.

Professionally, this year brought much needed stability. I got a very cool job editing and reviewing research proposals and have broadened my understanding of grant writing and of the amazing breadth of research taking place across a spectrum of disciplines. It is also very nice to have extended health benefits. Through this change I have continued the professional introspection I began last year. My new role lets me see which parts of my work experience are governed by my tasks and which parts come from within and will follow me in whatever I choose to do.

Unlike previous years, this year we stayed close to home. We explored our city and found places to hike nearby, but we did not travel far afield. We remain very happy living in our downtown co-op.  As the boys grow older we may require more space, but for now we are happy to deal with this by trying not to accumulate too much “stuff”. This choice allows us to live affordably with doctor, dentist, school, and several public parks, libraries, pools, and even skating rinks within walking distance.

Happy holidays and all the best for 2013!